Colour Communication Technique.

They helped me to communicate in a crumbing relationship.

After a series of a couple of relationships that didn’t end well, and many unsustainable/failed side hustles, I set out on a massive self-improvement journey by myself to be a better human. Sometime last year, to learn the true meaning of independence, I packed up my belongings into two huge 30" luggage, left the comfort of my old folks home, and settled down into a rented apartment.

Living alone, was a truly eye-opening experience for me, with steep learning curves conquered. It’s been over a year since I have had a significant other (S.O) my life, be it a lover or a family member and communication was proving to be quite a hurdle for me — who has gotten so used to being by myself and not having to express my emotions.

I came up with this colour code 🔵 🟢 🔴 🟠, which I would text as a forewarning for my most recent S.O., and it helped to prevent a lot of unhappy scenarios. It also teaches my S.O. to know when to give me space, or to give me a little time to feel better or even to expect a little crazy enthusiasm!

What Exactly Does the Colours Represent?

1. 🔵BLUE: This colour is self-explanatory, for when I feel under the blues. An accurate description of this feeling would be: